Tag: living lgbt

#188; my national Party no more

I have yet to read a better explanation as to why I am registering as an Independent for the first time in my life when I switch my drivers license over this week. I can no longer be a part of my Party (I’ve proudly, loudly, riotously been an active participant in the GOP since I was 6, I’ve won activism awards and been in the room with the most important people in conservative politics…), which saddens me to no end, but I just can’t do it anymore. The following article is from the huffingtonpost and I love it to bits (especially how no nonsense former Sen. Simpson is)! Yes, it is reprinted (copy & pasted) here in its entirety, not something I often do. Please show your support to the HuffPost even if you read the article here. I simply could not cut anything out (all editing/mistakes/even the location of the blockquote re: Santorum is theirs). Simpson said it so easily, so clearly, that I can’t believe it’s taken me so long to see: “I’m not sticking with people who are homophobic, anti-women.” ♥ – Tina


Former senator Alan Simpson (R-Wyo.) didn’t mince words in weighing in on the crop of Republicans mulling presidential campaigns for the next election cycle during an appearance on MSNBC’s “Hardball” on Monday.

When asked for his assessment of the emerging GOP field by anchor Chris Matthews, the co-chair of President Obama’s deficit commission didn’t hold back in criticizing members of his party on social issues.

“Who the hell is for abortion?,” asked Simpson, who has developed a reputation for making blunt and colorful remarks. “I don’t know anybody running around with a sign that says, have an abortion, they’re wonderful. They’re hideous. But they’re a deeply intimate and personal decision, and I don’t think men legislators should even vote on the issue.”

Simpson went on to address the issue of gay rights. “Then you’ve got homosexuality,” he said. “You’ve got ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.’ We have homophobes in our party. That’s disgusting to me. We’re all human beings. We’re all God’s children. … [Former Pennsylvania senator Rick] Santorum has said some cruel things, cruel, cruel things about homosexuals. Ask him about it. See if he attributes the cruelness of his remarks years ago. Foul.”

Simpson was presumably referring to remarks made by Santorum in 2003 that have already resurfaced in the early stages of the GOP presidential primary campaign. CNN reported at the time on the comments in question: In [an] AP interview, Santorum criticized homosexuality as he discussed a pending Supreme Court case over a sodomy law in Texas.

“If the Supreme Court says that you have the right to consensual (gay) sex within your home, then you have the right to bigamy, you have the right to polygamy, you have the right to incest, you have the right to adultery. You have the right to anything,” Santorum said in the AP interview.

“That’s the kind of guys that are going to be on my ticket, you know, makes you sort out hard what Reagan said, you know, ‘stick with your folks,’” explained Simpson to Matthews. “But I’m not sticking with people who are homophobic, anti-women, you know, moral values while you’re diddling your secretary while you’re giving a speech on moral values. Come on. Get off of it.”

New Jersey Governor Chris Christie is one Republican who Simpson praised in the context of the conversation that began on the topic of the 2012 presidential election. He called the governor “quite awesome.”

#124; show your PRIDE

No one does Pride like the District. I’m ecstatic to be here for it one more time. See you on 17th!

#118; grateful for little things (& awesome happy hours)

Life has been more stressful than usual these days, the joy of taking on an entirely new and daunting endeavor, I suppose. However, I’m learning to savor the little things instead of worrying about the big picture that I have no control over. It’s a process, I’ll admit. But here are some little things:

♥  kind words from my boss to a room full of people I admire.
♥  plans in the works for the 2010 Capital Pride celebration!
♥  discovering new trendy restaurants to make my own.
♥  the warm weather finally coming back to D.C.
♥  being given the opportunity to speak to a group of empowered, successful women today.
♥  the new friends I’ve made on this crazy path so far.
♥  having people who will stick up for you.
♥  my Twitter lists.
♥  software that works and makes life so much easier.
♥  last but note least – an amazing happy hour this coming Monday; seriously, it may be for my job but that’s not why I’m so excited: drink specials, a great LGBT crowd, and one of my favorite bars in the District!